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Hugs to you. You did not fail them. I had 4 miscarrieages before I was blessed with my oldest son and his brother. It is normal to cry. I cry from time to time when I think about them what they would of looked liked.
It is hard on us mothers but the joys your little ones will bring to you will help heal your loss and broken heart for the others. I am always here to listen like we all are. Please don't hold your emotions in because that will just make you feel worse. Sometimes crying is the best medicine. You will be in my thoughts and prayers during this holiday season.

Congrats Maribo and I will pray you carry to full term.

I’m sorry I’m just now seeing this post, I hope you are feeling better now. I’m sending all the virtual love, hugs, and support that I can!
Know that it is not your fault! Things happen that are completely out of our control, but I understand that knowing that doesn’t always make it any easier.
I didn’t find out I was pregnant until I was already 16 weeks. Everyone I told that to thought bad of me for not realizing, but little do they know that it’s a fairly common occurrence. Some bodies don’t show symptoms, or some do but mirror more along the flu, or some (such as myself) have previous health problems similar of some pregnancy symptoms and are just plain used to it, not knowing this is something different.
Grief is an awful, but healthy thing to go through, and it is normal to go through it in spurts, or continue to feel it for years. Just know that you are strong and loved, and supported by many.

Hugs.

Congratulations Maribo!

Amgr, I'm so sorry you are struggling with your losses. We've lost 11 since my son was born. Some of them I got far enough they had names. Took me 20 years to reach the point where I gave up the dream of giving birth to another child. I'm so blessed with my boys, but some nights I get caught in the what ifs. I hope your heart heals with the laughter of your children.