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The only way you could ever “fail” is if your littles aren’t fed, clothed, kept clean, and kept in a safe environment. Everything else will fall into place. You can do this, and you will rock at it! It just feels so hard because of all the ups and downs you’ve gone through with the twins.

I have 3, from 6-3 years old. Some days, that laundry just doesn’t get folded or the living room doesn’t get vacuumed. Those dishes? Yeah, they sat overnight because I was exhausted by the end of the day. But you best believe those kids have had everything they needed done, and they are safe, happy, and healthy. That’s all that matters. They are only little for so long, don’t sweat the stuff that won’t matter in the long run. I’ve learned to plan my shopping trips around my fiancé’s schedule, get all doctors appointments on the same day, order online when I can for certain things. Order online and in store pickup has become my best friend, I don’t have to run around the store with three kids. I just drive up and it’s all ready to go (if you have a friend that can go with you it’s even better, the friend can sit in the car with the kids so you can walk in).

Thank you Ammit and Fallen! I just want the best for all of my babies! :x